Saturday, March 16, 2013

A Tea Party for our Queen Mother

 All of the "California Girls" in the family met today to have tea 
in honor of Mom's recent birthday!
 Mom, Heather & I drove from LaHabra, and Robin, Gretchen 
& Abby came down from Whittier together
 We went to McKenna's Tea Cottage in Seal Beach.


 A proper cup of tea!
 We chose soup or salad, then we had finger sandwiches & scones. 
Finally, tiny desserts. Yum!
 We each got our own pot of tea from a variety of flavors. 
They were delicious!


 Birthday card, pictures and a drawing from Anders
 We went next door to the Old Town Nursery to look at their heirloom plants. 
We all loved this fountain tree!


A lovely day!!
Here's the text of my birthday gift to Mom (most of the formatting was lost here):


Things I Appreciate About My Mom
By Gretchen Seelye Stevens 3/9/2013-In honor of her 85th birthday

She loves the Bible & believes that people’s lives can be changed by following it
She likes to tell jokes, and sometimes remembers the punch lines 
She tries new recipes often
She still cooks from “scratch.”                                                          
She loves her family so much!
She passed the “cry gene” on to Robin & I 
She came and lived at our homes for 4-7 days for the birth of each of the 12 grandkids! Since         mine was an emergency C-section, I went & lived at their house for 1 week, then she came to our house for another week!
She is a very caring sister to her brother, Elmer
She was a very good sport on our family vacations!
She was willing to camp in a pop-up tent & travel with 3 little girls
She read books aloud to us on our long vacations
She was willing to drive the car & take pictures of us on several train rides rather than always       riding it herself
She prayed for us often as we were growing up

Kitchen Tips I Learned from Mom

How to make meat loaf, tacos & potato salad
How to make apple crisp (She was my Home Ec. teacher, & I learned this in her class.)
To soak your dirty dishes with water… It’s saves lots of scrubbing time later.
If you leave the butter on a dish in the cupboard, then it’s always soft & easy to spread
How to grate lemon peel
How to bake cakes, muffins, cookies & brownies
While the goodies are baking, clean up all the pots & pans
The secret to her delicious piecrusts is the hidden cinnamon in the rim
How to make homemade buttercream frosting-YUM!
How to cook Spanish rice, pork chops & artichokes
A pancake is ready to turn over when you’ve seen 3 little holes form in the batter
Mix sugar & cinnamon in a large shaker to sprinkle on warm buttered toast
When adding food coloring to icings, only add 1 drop at a time
She always tried to be VERY fair! I remember when we 3 girls would help with cookies, 2 of us got   to lick one beater each and the other got to lick the bowl & spatula.
 How to broil yams in individual hollowed-out orange-halves -Yum!! 
Try to include several colors in each meal to make the food more appealing





More Things My Mom Taught Me

I learned how to hem skirts & pants from Mom
I learned how to sew on a button, put in a zipper & make a buttonhole
I learned how to make dresses, pants, jackets & blouses, too
I learned out how to take out my mistakes with a seam-ripper 
I learned the 6-step way to properly iron a long-sleeve man’s shirt
I learned how to properly iron something with pleats or gathers (there’s a big difference!)
I learned how to do my own laundry
She taught me (the importance of and) how to smash snails in the garden
She taught me the different types of infant cries (wet diaper, hungry, mad, or tired)
I learned how to frame someone in a photo
She taught me the “rule of thirds” for picture taking
I learned the “hold your breath” trick from Mom (to hold the camera still) when taking pictures
People are more important than clean carpets
People are more important than projects
How to cover a textbook using a brown paper grocery bag
How to feed a newborn puppy with a baby-doll milk bottle
How to put my thumb over the hose nozzle to make the water spray out
When I was nursing my newborns, she would bring me a tall glass of water & have me drink it      down while nursing to stay hydrated. “Water makes milk,” she would remind me. 
How to clean out the refrigerator
How to defrost the old-fashioned kind of freezer
How to dust & vacuum
How to mop & wax a linoleum floor
How to be fair when it’s time for the Easter Egg Hunt (Each person gets 3 Reese’s cups, 1 hard-boiled egg, 2 egg-shaped cookies, etc. They even help each other find their quotas)
How to be fair when kids are getting candy from a piñata. (Each child gets 3 Tootsie pops, 4        Jolly Rancher candies, 1 small bag of M&M’s, etc. They all end up with the same number & no one gets left out)
How to buy & wrap the gift on the way to a birthday party
How to clip coupons & comparison shop
How to look on the sales racks first
The AMAZING gift of hospitality
The importance of learning how to talk to adults politely (including looking them in the eye)
She modeled a godly woman with a meek & quiet spirit who enjoyed life & loved her husband!
And so much more!

            Mom, I love you SO much! I am so grateful to have been born into our family. You are more precious than gold!    Happy 85th birthday!                                  
                                                                                     Love, Gretchen

3 comments:

Erin said...

Looks like a wonderful time! Those fountain trees are beautiful.

Grandma Seelye said...

Thank you dear daughters for such a fabulous afternoon!! You have made turning 85 so much fun!! I thank the Lord for our three wonderful daughters!! And of course all the rest of great family too!

Robin said...

The tea party WAS fun! What a great list of things about Mom, Gretchen! I still iron shirts the way mom taught us to... it keeps the ironed portions from getting all wrinkled when you do another section. Wonderful list and I'm sure you've already thought of more things, too!
Love, Robin